It has been so long since I blogged regularly. Lots has changed recently. Here’s a few updates… I stopped taking … More
Tag: Note to self
3 Simple Ways To Use Masculine Privilege For Good
Most societies in the world are patriarchal where men are given more power. It’s a fact that manifests itself in … More
Teenage Sexual Trauma
Trigger warning: sexual assault | A little while ago, I realized someone from my past was following me on social … More
I Love My Titties
My story doesn’t look like the typical narrative in the mainstream for people transitioning. I don’t need surgery. I was … More
1 Year On Testosterone & Transition Timeline
Success in transitioning isn’t measured by the notion of passing. It is measured in peace of mind. It has been … More
Always On the Go!
Counting my blessings after another day. Mindful gratitude, being thankful for all that is and is yet to come, has … More
“Control” (a Poem)
I take a dose Twice a day In a world Where I’m scared Someone would Take my life away I … More
If I Knew Then & Good News!
When I didn’t understand my identity and felt nothing but angst and shame I never thought I would be marching … More
“Love Everyday” Guitar Freestyle Video
Lyrics: Wouldn’t it be great If we could all love everyday All our problems gone away World so full of … More
“What’s the Secret?” Guitar Freestyle Video
Having fun with an acoustic freestyle. This was actually a week ago, on Mother’s Day. It was a good day … More
Writing My Novel & Meeting My Soulmate
I outlined what I have written plus the rest of Part One. And I’ve started in on writing again. The … More
Healing Doesn’t Mean Feeling Better
Not right away at least. Ever heard the phrase, “going through it…”? Well in order to get through it, you … More
3 Months on T
Here is a list of changes I have noticed: The first change I noticed was in my skin, it is … More
Writing My Sci-Fi Manuscript
I’m holding myself accountable to it. My goal is to finish the manuscript I began writing in 2015 by the … More
Compassion & Coping Cards
My therapist is helping me using the CBT mode: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. I went in with an open mind and … More
Call Me Kei
It happened at the clinic again. This time I was waiting to meet with my new medical social worker for … More
Why SUAVE?
Acronym aside, I chose the word suave because it has been used as a positive description for masculinity. But it … More
Change Can Be Scary
Change can bring up fear. Even if the fears are rational, the emotion of fear can cause irrationality. But change … More
There Will Be Blood
So far none of my shots have bled more than a droplet. It’s an injection, so pressure should be applied … More
Two Spirit- An Indigenous Recognition
(Photo by GWS of me in Belize last year) I recently had the good fortune to be present for a … More
Note to My Past Selves
In the spirit of this new moon in Aquarius and lunar new year (Chinese year of the dog), this note … More